FIVE way to make people ADMIRE you!!

How to Make People Admire U?

• Show them that you have what they lack: People usually admire others who have what they don't. A person lacking self-confidence is attracted to, and admires a confident person; the weak is attracted to the strong and the coward is attracted to the courageous and brave. Your goal should be to find what your friends lack, then try to show them that you have it. Even if you don't currently possess this something, you should do your best to aquire it, then put it on display for people to admire.

• If you don’t know what they miss: The first point leads us to the second point, what if you don’t know what those people lack? That's not really a problem, because, statistically, most people are not brave, not very self-confident and not strong. All you have to do is build up these qualities in yourself then market yourself to others.

• Use the law of attraction: People are usually attracted to people with whom they share common interests, so the more interests you have in common, the more people you will attract and the higher the possibility of being admired.

• Success Having succeeded in anything will probably lead to people admire you greatly since success is something that eludes many. You may also find people jealous and envious of this success and may make a few enemies in the process, but this will be far outweighed by the many others who will admire you.

• Position yourself well in their minds What is the first thing that comes to someone’s mind when he hears your name? Will it be “respect” , “honesty”, “strength”, “will power” or will it be “loser”? Positioning yourself is simply identifying yourself with a certain image in the minds of others.

source from: http://www.2knowmyself.com/communication_skills/How_to_make_someone_admire_me